Arkansas Woman Gets Probation for Raping 15-Year-Old

This is a disturbing story, and an annoying one.  On the bright side, she seems to have been caught before too much damage was done to this kid's life.  She only interacted with him a few times and it was nipped in the bud.  She didn't have much physical access to him.

It bothers me every time adults sexually abuse children.  That's a large part of why I maintain this website and blog.

As a woman I can't understand why she would want a 15-year-old boy.  She's a very attractive woman who could easily get an 18 or 20-year-old man and have almost exactly the same experience, but better.  Just keeping it real. 

And to keep it even realer, I have to say that that experience would almost certainly be frustrating and boring.  Because I know people who are 15, 18, and 20 years old -- bless their hearts.  It's just weird to get naked with a 15-year-old boy.  He might not even have hair yet.  It's a sick mind game, exactly like with male molesters.

So it really annoys me, when anything like this happens, the inevitable chorus of men in the comments.  I encourage you to read the YouTube comments on this video and see for yourself the victim mentality, and the pure lack of information men have about sexual violence and the way  things play out in the criminal justice system in real life. 

They see guys occasionally getting prison time for "to Catch a Predator" type stings where there is no girl, and forget all about the many men who rape underage girls and also plea down to probation-only.  Justice is extremely uneven in America.  But it hardly favors women in sexual matters.

• Men believe that if the shoe were on the other foot, that if a male molester were caught with a 15-year-old girl, he'd go to prison for years!
• There's always the assertion that people don't think it's bad or harmful somehow if it's a woman abusing a boy.  But the only people who ever assert that are men.  I don't think I've ever met a woman who thinks this is anything but disgusting, whereas men find it sexy all the time.  I stopped watching Curb Your Enthusiasm when they did a "hot for teacher" episode.
• Adult men rape underage girls and get probation only through the miracle of plea bargaining all the time.  And then they go on to commit all kinds of violent crimes, go figure.  Somehow this goes unnoticed.
• Again, if you know of any women who think adult women having sex with underage boys is okay, please notify this author and I will look into it.