And in a shocking twist of fate that nobody could have anticipated, someone in the world of gymnastics may turn out to be a sexual abuser of young people.

I don't know what it will take to establish basic guidelines, where children are not left in the supervision of only one adult.

We've seen over and over that institutions simply can't be trusted to do anything but protect their faculty and themselves.  They protect their bottom line, not their students' bottoms. 

It really boggles my mind, the way the Olympics bent over backwards, did backflips, to protect some nothing little schlub like Larry Nassar.  What's so special about him?  Why do they always protect these people?

I came across a video that -- while heartbreaking to watch -- is so educational that I found it important to share.  This is what it's like to work as a paramedic in America.

I warn you it's painful to watch.  His anguished screams are simple to understand.  He can't be consoled.  There is nothing to help him, I don't think even at the hospital, but time.  I'm not sure even methadone is necessarily a help.

This young man has been resuscitated with Narcan after long-term opioid addiction.  His housemates called 911.

A lot of my coworkers would surprise me with how little they understood drug users like this young man.  They often believed that the combativeness after receiving Narcan -- which is not usually this bad -- is anger at the money they had "wasted" on the high.

Because the one and only thing that Narcan does in the human body is block its ability to work with opioids, any and all of them.  So whether you took heroin, Fentanyl, Percocet, whatever, Narcan will stop all of that dead in its tracks.  And all of a sudden you'll start breathing again, which is the paramedic's goal:  Airway, Breathing, Circulation.  Hospital.

But the people who work as police, firefighters, and paramedics, are drawn from a very specific hiring pool.  They have military hiring preference.  They drug test.  So it skews heavily toward alcoholics who never touch weed or any other drugs.  And they simply don't understand the mindset or how it works, even very simple things about marijuana usage and etiquette, anything you wouldn't learn on a traffic stop.

Anyway I'm rambling.  But this poor guy comes from a completely different world.  He's not angry about money that he lost from all the drugs he bought, as my coworkers would sometimes say.  He's not mad that he's not high anymore.

Because those people -- like the functional alcoholics that many of the first responders are -- don't actually get high anymore.  They only get "not sick."  They have to take more and more just to be okay.  I know a lot of police, firefighters, and paramedics get drunk as dogs just to be basically okay.  A lot of them wouldn't pass a breathalyzer during their shifts, GTFO.  And yet they do judge.  This is an open secret everywhere.  It has become a new thing to bust teachers with it on YouTube.

Another area where I needed to push Narcan was nursing homes.  Elderly people are frequently given high-dose opioids in patches.  Those may be applied by people with inappropriate licensing, CNAs, and placed one atop the other, or simply applied to any bare area of skin, without removing the old patches.  The elderly person is already incapacitated, and then has a massive opioid overdose.  Because the patches often continue to seep medication.  They're meant to be removed and replaced.  The nurses push their work off onto untrained staff all the time.

But this poor young man.  He's clearly been having to take increasing doses of his opioid of choice for an extended time.  And today he stopped breathing, or his roommates couldn't wake him.  Maybe he was choking on his own vomit, like Jimi Hendrix, and couldn't protect his own airway, although I didn't see any puke. 

When the medics arrived, they had to get him breathing again.  The opioids had told his brain not to signal his lungs to breathe.  So that had to be blocked with Narcan.   And once that happened, all of that long-term tolerance that had our man Joseph in the video needing higher and higher doses over time, as I'm sure he did, all of that came crashing down.  All of that hit a brick wall with that one Narcan push.

Joseph is screaming that way because he's back to Day 1 of never having met an opioid after that push of Narcan.  Again, the one and only thing Narcan does in the human body is block the action of the opioid receptors.  It simply makes opioids not connect to their targets in the brain.  So his long-term relationship with them ended all at once.  Every raw nerve in his body hit that brick wall all at once.  His entire brain is on fire.  That's why he's screaming like that.  When he can eventually form words, they are "Let me die."

I really wish Joseph all the best.  I honestly don't know what happens next for him. 

I have so much to catch up on after being ill.  And unfortunately, a lot of the backlog also makes me feel ill.

A lot of things about this story really disturb me.  Really there's only one bright spot:  the father.  I'll review the video again, going point by point with what bothers me about this.

  1.  Indian manager tried KISSING 17-year employee.  Why is the manager's nationality/race in the title? What does that have to do with anything?  Problematic.  Especially since this incident happened in Georgia, deep in the heart of pitting rape survivors against people of other races, just for the mirth and merriment.

2.  A 17-year employee is someone who has worked there for 17 years.  This is a 17-year-OLD employee, a teenager, unlike the manager in his 50s.  Why am I picking that little nit?  Well, because this whole story is being covered on a gaming channel.  It's being seen as infotainment for boys whose minds work at that level now.  I'm not sure that's a good thing.  I'm not sure they'd be on the girl's side at all if (a) there were no videotape,  (b) the manager were white or black, or (c) he was a really popular singer or sportsballer.  Or even a high-school sportsballer, like from Steubenville.  For example, the video opens with a witness giving a statement, and the gamer overtalks him with "Don't mind my massive pimple that I just popped!"  because really, we have our priorities totally straight when talking about sexual violence in America.

3.  Look how effortless the lies and victim-blaming are from the manager.  "I told her to clean the break room.  Twenty minutes later I had to go looking for her.  I found her playing on her phone. So I "charged" her.  I told her you had 20 minutes to clean the floor and table and it's not done.  Then she asked to go to the bathroom, so I said okay.  Then her father came and "charged" me."  He claims he completed the mopping she hadn't done after she went to the bathroom after doing nothing for 20 minutes.  He seems entirely baffled about why her father showed up like a crazy man.  This girl is completely nuts!

4.  The first question the police have for him is if there are cameras in the break room where the alleged incident occurred.  He makes them ask three times.  He's stalling.  Because of course there are.  And he has just lied his whole face off.  The manager confirms repeatedly that there are no cameras in there.  When the other employees say there is, and the cops go in there and see a camera, he says it's been broken for years.  I'm mentioning this part of it, because it demonstrates how very heavily this manager is relying on HE-SAID, SHE-SAID, the staple diet of rape culture.  America and the world have been running on that forever.  As long as he can fall back on HE-SAID, SHE SAID, he knows he can do whatever TF he wants.  Because of the very next question the cops had for him:

5. "How long has she been working here? Have there ever been any issues between you guys?"  Now.  I understand that he's doing an investigation, and he has to ask questions.  But that line of reasoning, where it's equally likely that this middle-aged man grabbed a teenage girl, or this teenage girl tried to frame her innocent manager who never did anything, is frankly fucking ridiculous.  It just makes my teeth hurt, how one is as common as cockroaches, and the other is more of a Faberge egg, that takes a lot of time and effort to create, you don't really see that often, and is fairly easy to spot.  Ask yourself why she would suddenly run out of her work shift and call her dad to come beat her manager's ass, for what possible reason?  Him being a horny turd and lacking impulse control is a fairly obvious reason.  Women are presumed lying and hysterical, overreacting to the little nothings that men do.  "Boys will be boys."

6. The manager, being an alleged asshole, is definitely smelling what the cop is stepping in.  And he knows how to capitalize on the momentum.  "I'm a respectful person.  I'm almost 60 years old.  I'm not going to touch the girls!" he says with a light chuckle.  He apparently hasn't been in the country long enough to know all the dog-whistle catchphrases we traditionally use to discredit rape survivors in this country, especially as a man of color in Georgia.  The police move to questioning other employees.  They say there is in fact a camera in the break room.

7.  Meanwhile, at 5:46 we see that the police have left the suspect manager to his own devices for some reason.  He has gone to the tape room and immediately pulled up the section of tape that he just told the police didn't exist. He was charged with tampering with evidence.

8.  When being arrested, after watching a video that shows him allegedly putting his hands on her waist, lifting up her face, then moving his face toward hers as if to kiss her -- exactly as the employee complained of -- the manager's question is, "What I have done?"  He's utterly baffled.  They all are.  No rapist ever thinks they did anything wrong.  Since time immemorial, women have been chattel property of men.  They get to do whatever they want with our bodies.  And for some of them that notion is really stubborn.

It is kind of horrible to hear the police notifying his wife that he's being arrested.  Because you know what?  She's an Indian wife.  That was probably an arranged marriage.  She's stuck with that jerk.  This is all her problem now. She has to support their family on her income now. 

At the end of the day, I guess what bothers me the most is what a horrible mess all of this would have been without the video.  Because nobody would have believed the girl or given a fuck about her but her father. 

If she's white and it's in Georgia, depending what year it is and what color the manager is, who her father is, it could have gone a number of different ways.  All of that would be political only.  That's how sexual assault works in America.

Now we're at a point in the post #MeToo world where this is virtue signaling infotainment for gamer boys, as long as the demographics all hit the right notes and there's the right amount of audio-visual material for their streams.  But these are the same people who make Reddit such a sewer and acquit Andrew Mitchell twice when they sit on juries.  None of them will ever read this blog or any of my books lol

Any adult who knew that this woman was involved with a student should go right to prison along with her.

I don't see anyone excusing this behavior except horny men.  There's nothing sane or healthy about a school guidance counselor having sex with one of the students, having him think they're in a relationship.  That's a bizarre level of control for her to have.

Again, I can't imagine having sex with a 14-year-old boy, how awkward and horrible that would be.  Would he even have hair on his junk?  Gawd.

Former Rochester Police Officer Shawn Jordan is now charged with raping a 13-year-old family friend in his home in 2022. 

Jordan was previously charged with having lewd chats with another underage girl on Facebook.  He resigned from the police after that incident.

Daniel Ramos Avilez was arrested by his own department.  It's unclear what led to the arrest.  His employment as a police officer apparently did not play a role in his accessing the children.  More details are expected.

Former Deputy Jemiah Thomas is accused of attempting to solicit a minor after meeting her on a domestic violence call at her family home.

He's facing felony charges after allegedly sending explicit texts and attempting to meet up with the underage girl.  Her family discovered the texts and alerted his department, who followed up with an investigation.  Thomas is out on bond as of this writing.

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